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Re:Glad I didnt go to PNW meet and greet. . . 3 Months ago  
Our condolences and prayers for you and your family.
God works in mysterious ways!
Take care of your wife and family.

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Re:Glad I didnt go to PNW meet and greet. . . 3 Months ago  
Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers. It's difficult but I know my wife and I will get through this
 
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Re:Glad I didnt go to PNW meet and greet. . . 3 Months ago  
What you are going through is beyond words of grief and pain. I cannot think of anything to say other than my heart goes out to you and your family. Sorry for your loss.
 
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Re:Glad I didnt go to PNW meet and greet. . . 3 Months ago  
Sorry to hear this bud. But I agree with everyone here that you made the right choice. The loss of a child, even one unborn is a pain that never really goes away. My wife and I have two little babies in Heaven waiting on us, Dillon and Avery.
It is still as hard now for my wife to talk about it as it was then. It's been three years since we lost Avery, and four since we lost Dillon. Neither one made full term before God took them. I know they say that if they don't make it, there must be a reason or there was something wrong but dammit I wanted to love my children, including every flaw. I dabble in woodworking so I made a crib, a small size about 4"x 9". It has one ultrasound picture on each side that is framed into the wood permanently, each side is one of our children. Then my wife made a blanket with both of their names sewn into it that rests inside. We have the whole thing on a shelf up high so that we raise our heads in rememberance of our children, instead of dropping our heads in despair. The pain gets easier brother but it sure doesn't go away. As far as taking a ride to clear your head and soul, for me this was worse. The demons chased me......I found that time with my wife is what got me (us) through. Continue to be the rock, you may crack but try not to crumble as she will need a stronger foundation of support than you could ever imagine. Prayers to both of you.
 
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Re:Glad I didnt go to PNW meet and greet. . . 3 Months ago  
So very sorry to hear that Patrick. We are all praying for you and your wife. Please give her a long group hug from us all. Being in the medical field myself, I am of aware of the statistics amd the emotions that accompany these events. Yes, it is natures way of telling us something was drastically wrong. We had a miscarrage also which is 30% for first time pregnancies. Its hard to do, but you can help your wife get through the horrible hormonal induced emotions. Hang tough buddy and thank God for your other wonderful children. You sure did do the right thing and stay home. Lets do a Hood Canal ride when you feel up to it. Hugs!
 
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Re:Glad I didnt go to PNW meet and greet. . . 3 Months ago  
Prayers to you and yours Patrick, you made the right choice for sure. My Mom is currently on Hospice, and has just days to live. The only reason I attended the ride is because my Sister had come down from Alaska and was there for her. I'm currently on FMLA leave and spending my days with her. I am sure you and your wife will have some very tough days ahead but be there for one another and you will get through this. My sincere condolences to you and yours.

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Re:Glad I didnt go to PNW meet and greet. . . 3 Months ago  
So sorry to hear; my prayers and condolences go out to you and your family. You're a good man to stay strong for your sons and wife; we're here for you though.
 
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Re:Glad I didnt go to PNW meet and greet. . . 3 Months ago  
So sad to hear this. Condolence and prayers for strength and comfort.
 
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Re:Glad I didnt go to PNW meet and greet. . . 3 Months ago  
Patrick, so glad you decided to stay by your wifes side, not something she should have to endure alone. Praying for you both and your boys. Stay strong.
 
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Re:Glad I didnt go to PNW meet and greet. . . 3 Months ago  
Like a lot of the other guys on the clinic my family also lost our second to a miscarriage. We (guys) seem to take it hard but nothing like the wives. So even though you may not realize it you are helping by being there for her. It is hard to understand what it must be like to prepare yourself emotionally to carry another human inside of you to bring into this work just to lose it so suddenly. Even with the congenital defects you would want to have that child in your lives. Prayers to you and your family brother.
 
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