So very sorry to hear that Patrick. We are all praying for you and your wife. Please give her a long group hug from us all. Being in the medical field myself, I am of aware of the statistics amd the emotions that accompany these events. Yes, it is natures way of telling us something was drastically wrong. We had a miscarrage also which is 30% for first time pregnancies. Its hard to do, but you can help your wife get through the horrible hormonal induced emotions. Hang tough buddy and thank God for your other wonderful children. You sure did do the right thing and stay home. Lets do a Hood Canal ride when you feel up to it. Hugs!